Высокие требования к партнеру — не повод жить в одиночестве
If every potential partner feels like a «leftover» or a disappointment, you are likely following a family script that keeps love at a distance to keep you safe.
We go deep into your system to find out why your heart refuses to look up, so you can finally find someone who stands tall beside you.
Attachment Style
Many understand their Attachment Style (Anxious, Avoidant, or Disorganized). But where did that style come from? We often carry a «Disrupted Reach» from our own childhood or a parent’s unresolved loss. In Constellations, we go deeper than the label. We look at the ‘Early Interrupted Reach’ or the ancestral traumas that shaped your ability to trust. By healing the systemic root, your attachment style can shift from insecure to secure, allowing for true intimacy.
The truth is, relationships are the hardest thing to build, because the complexity of the system doubles. Even small errors in one partner trigger the other, and suddenly – boom – emotional resonance and imbalance.
But within that vulnerability lies the deepest opportunity for spiritual awakening.
Relationships give us the biggest rewards:
- True love (yes, it exists)
- Deep fulfillment (the real kind, not Instagram fake)
- Support when life kicks you in the teeth
- Someone who sees you (really sees you) and doesn’t run
I’ve got two bits of news for you: bad and good.
The bad: Invisible forces you don’t even notice steer your relationships more than you think.
The good: We can find and manage it. We get to the real root of your relationship struggles and help you fix it.
Example:
One woman struggled with building long-term relationships. None of her relationships lasted more than a year. During the constellation, she discovered the root cause. Her grandmother lost her husband after just one year of marriage when he was killed at the start of World War II. Her grandmother was so devastated that she unconsciously passed down a belief to her descendants: «Don’t get married, or you’ll lose your man». This belief was created to protect future generations from the same pain.